I’ve always been a planner; I like having lists and schedules and I work really well around deadlines. From a very young age I had a plan for my life, granted it changed around more than once, but I always had a path that I could clearly see before me. In high school, my goal…
Being Mean to Anti-Vaxxers
Something that I will never understand are people who don’t believe in climate change. I find that, more often than not, the same people who don’t believe in climate change are the same people who turn out to be anti-vaxxers or flat-earthers. Now, I don’t have a problem with people who have different opinions than…
Minimalism
About a year and a half ago I decided that I wanted to check out minimalism. Long story short, with the divorce and all the drama surrounding that, I moved probably around 3 times in the span of a single month. After packing and unpacking only to pack again and move somewhere else two more…
Whole Ass One Thing
I’m going to be honest; I’m not really sure what I’m going to be writing about today, but I promised myself that I’d put something out every day. So here we are. I’ve been working a lot on writing my book recently, and I’m pretty far into it but the problem I keep running into…
Misconceptions about Witchcraft
I get a lot of funny looks when I first tell people that I’m a witch. I like to divide the looks into several categories: “You’re Joking Right?” – This one is usually accompanied with intense looks of judgement and comments along the line of “Like Harry Potter?” “Oh Cool.” – These are the people…
The “Story for Another Time”
TW: abuse I’ve avoided it long enough; I think it’s time. If you know me, you’ll know that I got married in 2017 and if you’ve been in my life since then, you’ll already be aware that is no longer the case. When it first happened, I avoided talking about it to people because I…
Learning to Be Silent
I harbor a great deal of frustration surrounding the idea of standing up for myself vs. being difficult. Historically, people who stand up for themselves and generally make life difficult for those people they’re standing up against, are put down in history as martyrs, revolutionaries, and overall strong individuals. But when I stand up for…
Witchcraft
It took me a really long time to feel comfortable writing about this. Strangely enough, coming to terms with the fact that I resonated with the Occult felt a lot like coming out of the closet. My whole life I always gravitated toward things that were more “magical” and “whimsical”. I loved things like old…